Visits Revealed

It is so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and lose sight of the little things that mean a lot. Many times as parents we take for granted the time that we allow our children to spend with their grandparents or other elderly family members that we hold near and dear. I have been guilty of this myself. My grandmother was constantly on me about bringing the kids by more often to see her; therefore, I have made it a priority to take them to visit her and their other grandparents as often as I can.

Because most of us have not yet reached our “senior years” we don’t realize just how much of an impact these visits have on our older relatives. Their lives have changed so much and their kids are now grown and far gone, often times with families of their own. I have come to a much clearer understanding of this phenomenon; therefore I am more sensitive to these requests from my parents and grandparents.

We must also consider the impact that the time spent with their grandparents and elderly family members has on our children. It gives them an opportunity to learn and grow from the wisdom that these individuals can impart upon them. It also gives them an opportunity to foster memories and relationships that they will recall for many years to come. We only have a limited amount of time left to spend time with them, so let’s enjoy it while we can!

So the next time one of your parents or grandparents “bugs” you about bringing the kids for a visit, think about it from their perspective and look at how much your kids will gain from the experience instead of seeing it as just another thing to add to your things to do list. You children will later thank you for those cherished moments. Share your last visit with the grandparents or your grandchildren by commenting below this post at www.savedmom.com.

Mommie Blessings,

Saved M.O.M.

 

 

What Is Your Child’s “Ness”

A few days ago during a conversation with a complete stranger, I was asked this question, “What is your ness?”  I paused for a moment because I didn’t really understand the nature of the question. After my pause, the woman went on to explain that a person’s “ness” is the thing that makes them unique. In other words she was asking me to describe my uniqueness.  I thought that was a wonderful way of asking this question. Each one of us has something that makes us unique, otherwise known as our “ness”.

As I pondered on the question, I started to think about my children. As parents, we quickly realize that thing which makes our child unique. Sometimes their “ness” may be something that we don’t necessarily care for, but we should try to figure out how to nurture it in a way that will help them live out their God-given purpose while simultaneously blessing others through their gifts and talents.

For example, my son has a very strong sense of determination and willpower. There are many times as a parent when his sense of determination causes frustration on my part, especially when I am trying to get him to do something that he doesn’t want to do. Although, I have come to the realization that this same spirit of determination could one day lead him to start his own company, become a great spiritual leader and/or do many other great things. His strong will power will keep him from allowing road blocks to deter him from his goals and aspirations.

I know that the task of parenting is not always easy, but with help from the Lord, all things are possible. Simply pray for the best way to guide your child’s “ness” so that s/he can become a great individual while operating at their full God-given potential. I would love for you to comment below this post at www.savedmom.com and share you and/or your child’s “ness”.

Mommie Blessings,

Saved M.O.M.